My place in the world is wherever these three boys are. I know someday they won’t need me (at least not until they need childcare!) but regardless of what they need, MY place is where they are. At least to be there just in case they need me. They may not. But my place is to be nearby in case they do. Doesn’t mean they have to suffer my company, but in terms of location, where they are, is my place in the world.